“How do I Ask for a Reference?” Your Key to Landing the Perfect Role

Mimi Petrakis • July 13, 2024

​Some Tips on Asking for a Job Reference or Approaching Someone About Becoming Your Referee


In today's competitive job market, having strong references can make a significant difference when trying to land your dream job. Whether you're seeking a new position or looking to advance in your current career, knowing how to ask for a reference or how to approach someone about becoming your referee, is crucial. At People bank, we understand the importance of effective communication and building professional relationships.


Here’s a comprehensive guide to help you navigate this essential aspect of your job search: 


1. Choose the Right Referee


Before you ask for a job reference, it's essential to select the right person. Consider the following:


Professional Relationship:

  • Choose someone who knows your work well and can speak positively about your skills and achievements. This could be a former manager, supervisor, or colleague.


Relevance:

  • Ensure the referee is relevant to the job you are applying for. If you're applying for a tech position, a reference from a former tech manager would be more impactful than one from an unrelated field.


Recent Interactions:

  • A recent reference is often more valuable. Someone you've worked with in the last few years can provide a more current perspective on your abilities.

 

2. Reach Out Politely and Professionally

When approaching someone to be your referee, it’s important to be respectful and professional. Here's how to do it:

 

Contact Them Directly:

Whenever possible, ask your potential referee in person or via a phone call. This approach is more personal and shows respect for their time.

 

Explain Your Request:

Be clear about why you're asking them to be your referee. Mention the job you’re applying for and why you think they would be a good fit to provide a reference.

 

Provide Context:

Explain the skills and experiences you believe they can highlight. This makes it easier for them to provide a detailed and relevant reference.

 

3. Make It Easy for Your Referee


Help your referee by providing all the necessary information and materials they might need. This can include:

 

Your Updated Resume:

Send them your most recent resume so they can reference specific details about your work history.

 

Job Description:

Provide the job description of the position you're applying for, so they understand the skills and qualifications the employer is looking for.

 

Key Achievements:

Highlight a few key achievements or projects you’ve worked on together. This can jog their memory and give them concrete examples to mention.

 

4. Timing Is Everything


Be mindful of the timing when you ask for a reference. Avoid last-minute requests and give your referee ample time to prepare. Ideally, ask for a reference at least a week before you need it.

 

5. Follow Up and Show Gratitude


After someone agrees to be your referee, follow up with a thank-you note or email. Express your gratitude for their time and support.

 

6. Keep Your Referees Updated


Once you’ve secured the job, don’t forget to inform your referees. Thank them again for their support and let them know how their reference helped you. This helps maintain a positive relationship for future opportunities.

 

7. Be Prepared for Different Types of References


Understand that references can come in different forms:


Written References: Some employers might ask for a written reference letter.


Phone References: Others may prefer to speak with your referees over the phone.


Online References: LinkedIn recommendations are also becoming increasingly popular. Ask your referee if they would be willing to endorse your skills on LinkedIn.

 

At Peoplebank, we encourage you to leverage your professional network and take proactive steps to advance your career. Asking for a job reference or approaching someone about becoming your referee doesn't have to be daunting! By selecting the right person, communicating clearly, and showing appreciation, you can secure strong references that will bolster your job applications.

 

For more tips and resources on job hunting, resume building, and career development, explore our blogs or contact our team at Peoplebank.

 

We're here to support you in achieving your career goals!

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